And sometimes I mean what I do not say, yes. But so do you, and that does not explain why when I say “loving you makes me afraid” you hear “I am afraid of you,” and continue to hear that until Bastien says that is not what I mean.
I am not afraid of you, it is not the same thing. But that is what you hear, and it hurts you as if that is what I have said.
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Date: 2021-02-25 06:40 pm (UTC)And sometimes I mean what I do not say, yes. But so do you, and that does not explain why when I say “loving you makes me afraid” you hear “I am afraid of you,” and continue to hear that until Bastien says that is not what I mean.
I am not afraid of you, it is not the same thing. But that is what you hear, and it hurts you as if that is what I have said.